Cait was on her fourth hour of homework when she looked over at me wearily and said, Tell me something profound, Mom. She shoved her geometry book aside in protest, propped herself up on her elbows and said, “All these math problems I’m doing are so meaningless. Who cares?
Slogging through my own pile of homework, her question jolted me upright. But I quickly regrouped, I knew exactly what she was asking:
- Tell me something that matters.
- Then tell me why I should care.
- Then put it into some useful, meaningful context, so I can relate. So it isn’t just more noise.
In my daughter’s case, sadly, her teacher believes he doesn’t have the luxury of time to offer real-life context for why it might be useful to know that the sum of the squares of two sides of a right triangle is equal to the square of the hypotenuse.
I say sadly, because that’s exactly what’s needed to make geometry memorable and relevant; to make it matter. Because we all know that’s the difference between motivating kids to get excited about learning and discovering vs memorizing to pass a test and then promptly forgetting.
So where am I going with this? Nope, not a rant about our broken educational system. Not even a rant about how the non-stop distractions and interruptions of technology and media have turned our kids’ attention spans into the size of a gnat’s.
If you’ve been a regular reader, perhaps you’ve noticed that, for me, seeking the profound is a deep spiritual need. Because to reside within what’s profound means to be “awake.” And being awake means being able to recognize and appreciate the stuff that really matters, and to more quickly throw off the stuff that doesn’t. It’s the gyroscope and compass that I count on to keep me pointed in the right direction through life.
In wanting to be told something profound, Cait told me something profound. I got to know that one of my most cherished values has been internalized by my daughter. And that’s a good day.
Where would you take the conversation if asked, Tell me something profound.
9 thoughts on “Tell Me Something Profound”
I posed the same question on a web search and this site came up. Then I had this thought: I’m not a bible expert, but I remember a part where Jesus was trying to feed the multitudes with only a few fish. He asked God for help, and I guess God could have tossed down a whole mess of them, but instead, he made those few be enough. So sometimes when I’m wishing for something, I think of option “B”: making do with what I have. Sometimes it works!
Marilyn, I agree, sometimes remembering that what we have is enough is as important as working toward “more.”
Hello Karen! I hope you were already thinking of resurfacing because I had no hidden motives in my email.
I, too, got hung up on the “profound.” I’m sure it’s primarily over-thinking the emphasis of the question on my part as most of my life is pretty profound at this point and in a good way.
Hope you’re enjoying the holiday weekend.
Hey Deb! Yep, this space has been calling me back for a while. I just finally gave in. : ) Yes, indeed, I’d say you’re up to your neck these days in the profound–in a really good way!
Wow. I don’t know what I’d answer if my kid asked that. With Easter right around the corner, there’s always the resurrection conversation…
Me too, I was happy to see a recent post by you pop up in my blog roll.
I don’t know where I would have gone with that conversation…I might try to find out if my daughter had something on her mind besides the math that she wanted to talk about before I delved into my own thoughts.
DeeDee! Halllooooo, how’s the weather in France? We’ve had the coldest, grayest,rainiest April I can remember. Good suggestion about looking underneath the question to see if something else was motivating it.
How fun to see you pop up in my feedreader today! Today I have no profound thoughts, just a really bad headache. But I love interactions like this with my own kids.
Beth! Thanks for keeping me in your reader for so long. So good to have you pop in here! The only profound thought to have about a headache is to hope it passes quickly! :)